“Textback Please, Thanks”
Sunday, September 14th, 2008ROMAN GUEVARA
Daily Devotional Reading
“Textback Please, Thanks”
Scripture:
Proverbs 11:17
17 A kind man benefits himself,
but a cruel man brings trouble on himself.
A friend of mine told me, that when Rudy Fernandez, the actor, was lying on his deathbed, tinawag niya ang kanyang mga anak to give them his last words or habilin. When it was Mark Anthony’s turn, his son by Alma Moreno, it is said that he gave (3) important reminders, and one of them, was, na, matuto siyang magtextback.
How important is it to textback, that a man who is about to die, would include it in his last words for his love ones?
Bakit ba tayo hindi nagtetextback?
One, hindi natin kilala yung nagtetex.
Number lang ang lumalabas sa ating celfone. Therefore, we conclude na baka nakuha lang ang number natin from someone else without our permission. It happens. And it happens a lot. Usually me pino promote na event or me tinitinda na item. We consider this a breach of our privacy, as well as a waste of our time to read, and much more to textback. Now, kung wala namang pinopromote o tinitinda, still, suspicious parin sa atin yung texter, kasi nga, hindi naman nakasave ang name niya sa ating directory. Ergo, hindi naman urgent at important sa ating buhay. Why should we textback?
Second, kilala natin pero hindi naman urgent ung message.
Tulad ng quotations. Me nagtext sayo “generosity is a good virtue”, or “bible reading is a must”, sino ba naman ang magtetextback sa ganyan? Siguro kung ang quotation ay “the heavens are beautiful and so are you” siguro sasagutin natin agad. Pero thanks sa mga nagsesend ng quotation, for taking the time to go unlimitext, and for including us in the text blast. Pero, alanganamang, sagutin natin ng sagutin ang quotations. With what? Another quotation? And there are other non-urgent messages. Like jokes. Or nonsense na questions. Or simpleng pangungulit. Bakit ba natin sila sasagutin agad o i tetextback? Lalo na king me ginagawa kang mahalaga. Tulad ng nagmamaneho ka ng sasakyan. Nasa meeting. Nasa bible study o worship service. Nagtatrabaho. Nagaaral. We do have a life. And our lives must not be enslaved by the not-so-urgent matters that usually pretends to be.
Third, kilala natin, pero sadyang ating iniiwasan.
Kung me utang tayo sa kanila at naniningil na. Kung me ibibigay sayong assignment, utos, or request, pero, unavailable ka sa ngayon. Kung hinahanap ka na ng magulang mo at pinapauwi ka na sa bahay. Kung ang girlfriend mo inaalam kung nasan kana at sino na ang kasama mo. Kung me kalokohan tayo at mukhang me nagiimbistiga. What else? Iniiwasan din natin yung mga nanliligaw, mga stalker, mga nangungulit. Mga kagalit natin na nagsosorry na, pero di pa tayo ready to forgive. Or when we are running away from something, and the only way to have peace of mind, is to ignore the text.
Fourth, kilala natin pero hindi naman important.
Hindi important ang ano? Ang message? O yung person? Sometimes yung message hindi important pero yung tao oo. Sometimes yung message important pero yung tao hindi. Pero sometimes important na yung message at pati yung tao, pero hindi parin tayo agad nagtetextback…………………………iba nayon. Pwedeng katamaran. Or pwedeng hindi ka kasi considerate. Hindi ka kasi thoughtful. Hindi ka kasi kind.
And the bible may not contain texting guidelines, but it does teach us to be kind.
There are messages that are not so urgent.
There are times we are really very busy.
But people are always important. Kahit sino pa siya.
And not texting back, and not texting back immediately, specially when we should, tells a person, that he is not important to you. And that is painful. That is unkind. And in some cases, very cruel.
Lalo na, kung mahalaga talaga sa buhay mo. Tulad ng magulang, kapatid, asawa, boyfriend, best friend, mga kabarkada mo, churchmates, people you work with, people you live with. Mga taong pinagkakautangan natin ng utang na loob. Old friends. People who helped us in the past. People who love and care for us.
Sometimes we take them for granted. Sometimes we think, they understand naman why we dont textback immediately. Or that, they are always around naman, kaya kahit bukas nako magtextback, or next week nako magtextback, or next month nako magtextback. How can you be so sure that they will still be around next month? next week? or na nandiyadiyan pa sila bukas?
Minsan me mga taong sablay sumagot sa text. Di mu alam kung na nanadya o me sayad lang talaga. Bakit kanyo? I text mu ngayon, as in right now, ng “kamusta? san kana?” . Sasagutin ka naman, yun nga lang after 1 week. At ang sagot sayo “o, eto mabuti naman, nandito lang ako sa bahay”. E seven days na ang lumipas, kung sumagot, akala mo ngayon lang natanggap. Some people are just unbelievable!
Pero, at eto, pero talaga. Pag siya naman ang nangailangan………gusto, sasagot tayo agad agad. Lalagay pa sa dulo ng message “textback please, thanks”. At ilang ulit pang ipapadala ang message niya, until we finally respond. Bakt natin siya dapat itextback agad? Nung bang tayo nagtetext sa kanya, sumagot siya agad? Ang hirap kasi sa ibang tao, pag mekailangan lang dun lang nagtetext. Pano ba naman gaganahan ang ibang tao sa iyo.
Even your love ones. One day, makakahalata narin ang mga yan, at mapapagod. Mapapagod na mahalin ka. Mapapagod na itext ka. Kasi, hindi kanaman considerate. Hindi kanaman thougthful. Hindi kanaman kind.
I heard someone say one time, “ako kasi, hindi naman ako talaga mahilig magtext, kaya hindi ako agad nagtetextback”. Bumenta nayan. One day, isang araw, you will realize, it’s basic human kindness, na magrespond kanaman sa text, lalo na, kung parte siya ng buhay mo.
Let’s be kinder. Mag textback naman tayo.
A PRAYER FOR TODAY
Thank you Lord for today. For the beauty of your creation. For the life that i have. For the opportunity to make things right. Thank you Lord for reminding me of the importance of kindness. Show me my faults. Convict me of my shortcomings. Teach me to be humble in times of correction. Enable me to see the things that i must change in my ways. Teach me to be kind. Fill me Lord today with your love, joy, and peace. And make this day, and this whole week, a blessed week, for me and for my love ones. I pray all of these things by faith, in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, in Jesus name, amen.
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